There are really only two times that a man will seek revenge on a woman after she cheats on him.
- The moment in time he discovers the affair or catches her in the act of cheating
- When you refuse to let her or her cheating ways go and move on
Since you are reading this right now obviously you have already passed the moment in time you learned of her cheating ways even if you continue reliving her cheating ways in your mind.
In fact, if you are seriously considering ways in which you can seek revenge odds are you have been focusing on the outside factors and influences that led to her cheating instead of focusing on you and the negative emotions that are building up inside of you.
The greater your desire to seek revenge or vengeance on her the more negative emotions you have building up inside of you and neither is going to subside by actually doing something “vengeful”.
In order for the pain that you are feeling to go away you must look inside of yourself, acknowledge the negative emotions that you are feeling and deal with them in a way that is going to lead you to positive emotions and pleasure.
Otherwise those negative emotions and painful feelings are going to continue to grow and grow inside of you until you do something that causes more pain and unhappiness for yourself than the pain of her cheating ever could create.
Now, is the time to let her go and move on towards the happiness that you seek, which in many ways will be the greatest revenge of all.
Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com