Out of all the negative emotions that you can face after she cheats on you fear is the one that is most likely to hold you back and keep you from facing any other negative emotions that you might have.
The message that fear is sending you after she cheats is that something that is going to happen soon (you moving on) needs to be prepared for.
In other words, it is signaling that the end of your relationship with her is near and you must begin to prepare for life as a single man in addition to letting go of her cheating ways.
Now, odds are you are going to be fearful about being single again yet the only options you have at the moment are staying with a cheating woman or becoming single again.
Fear is what causes some men to stay and “try and work it out” even though they know they are more than likely going to be cheated on again and again until she decides to stop.
What’s worse is she usually stops around the same time she gets enough strength to leave you permanently.
After she cheats, fear is what now stands before you and the pathway to happiness.
When you turn back on the fear you will face after she cheats, you allow fear and every other negative emotion you might face to become a burden on yourself that no man has the strength to handle.
In time those negative emotions (should you choose to turn your back) will turn you into either a submissive doormat who chooses to ignore her cheating ways or a paranoid and over reactive man who “attempts too work it out” every time you catch her cheating again.
Either way once you turn your back on fear you turn your back on happiness as well.
When you can face the fear and deal with it head on, it prepares you mentally to truly enjoy the happiness that comes with overcoming the negative emotions that you will have faced.
Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com