As you hopefully already realize dealing with the negative emotions that come after she cheats on you is ultimately what will guide you to the happiness or way that you seek.
Learning how to effectively deal with the anger that will arise after she cheats on you is just another step in the entire process.
The message that anger is sending you is that an important rule or standard (faithful or committed relationship) that you hold for your life has been violated.
Obviously, you are angry (and rightfully so) because she cheated on you thus breaking a very important rule of your committed relationship.
When you are angry after she cheats all you can really do is ask yourself, “What can I learn from this?”
And part of the answer whether you like it or not is that maintaining a committed and faithful relationship with you isn’t important to her at all.
Now, the anger will stay as long as you continue to try and deny the fact that faithfulness and commitment is not as important to her as it is for you for these 3 main reasons.
1. She already knew that cheating isn’t part of a committed relationship.
2. Once a commitment is made and agreed upon “faithful” becomes right.
3. There is only one way you can ensure she doesn’t violate your standards again.
Anger, is one of those emotions that after she cheats isn’t going to go away until you become congruent with what you want.
In other words, as long as you continue to try and maintain a relationship with a cheating woman you are going to be pretty angry about it as your mind won’t know otherwise.
Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com